When I was young and people judged me for things I had no control over, that was really hard, so I’m incredibly open to people doing whatever works for them. It’s just as surprising to me as it probably is to everyone else. It certainly is strange to wake up, at 44, and look at the person next to you and think: ‘Oh! This wasn’t what I expected.’ But I don’t think love works that way, and I am O.K. with that. – Jenna Lyons, J.Crew Creative Director, via NYTimes